Loneliness is a plague in this world in which we live. There are billions and billions of people on the planet, but many of these people live alone. Many of the people who don’t live alone live with extreme loneliness. Women in particular are often looking for information regarding:
a) How to make a man fall in love with me
b) How to make a man love you and everything you do
c) How to love a man all the time
d) How to love a guy through and through
e) How to make a man love you all the time
A man is a very different “type of animal”. Many a woman has tossed and turned in her bed trying to figure that special guy out, and show him that they love him. Are gifts and presents the only what that you can show that special guy in your life that you care? Hardly. In this article we will be examining and exploring the various ways in which it is possible to tell that special man in your life that you love him through and through…
Food…
We have all probably heard that the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. For many men this is true. We can’t go so far as to say that the only way to get a man love you is to go through his stomach, but it is true that almost every guy appreciates good food, and all that time and thought that has gone into it’s preparation.
1) For starters we will begin with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. Why not make him something truly special to get his day off on the right foot? Think he might like some heart-shaped pancakes? If he’s not into pancakes how about trimming the corners off a piece of toast to replicate the shape of a heart? Even the butter that could accompany this dish could be trimmed into a heart shape. It will go great on those pancakes or toast. Yummy!!!
2) Lunch comes next. Many men “brown bag” it to work, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Here’s an extra surprise: cook or make his favorite snack and add it with his “usual ole’ sandwich” for that special note saying: “I love you”.
3) The last meal of the day is the evening meal, at least for most people. Even though it’s the last meal of the day, this doesn’t mean that it has to be the least romantic. You could start things off with a dinner via candlelight. Play some romantic and soothing music in the background. That great little bottle of wine. Oh, and don’t forget to make him that special meal that he often raves about.
4) Many people eat snacks throughout the day. So many in fact that they are not very memorable. How about a romantic snack? Is there a special treat that you enjoyed when you were first dating? Perhaps an ice cream soda at the local drugstore? Nobody says that you can’t go back and do it all over again. Bring on all those romantic snacks…they mean so much…
Affection
Everyone needs to know that people care about them. Men are included in this group ladies! Even those “strong and silent type” guys can get a tear in the eye when they watch a very sad or touching movie. Looking for a way to show that special guy that you love him? Why not try:
1) You know, a hug says so much. When he least expects it, why not come up from behind and put your arms around him and give him a nice hug. You can whisper “I love you” in his ear. Don’t overdo this mind you…just once in a while so that it will be something really unique and special.
2) Listen, plain and simple. So many times when the guy comes home from work his ear falls off from the events of “your day”. He probably wants to relax a bit and not hear all about your woes and worries. Sit back and listen to what he has to say for a change. Instead of trying to change the subject all the time, truly listen, and offer “I’m listening responses”, like “I see” or “Hmmm”…
3) Don’t forget, some guys don’t like to talk at all when they get home from work. The frustrations of their day are too near and too raw. They just want to sit back and “veg” for a while. Give them all the time that they need. They will probably start to talk your ear off once they unwind a bit, but give them that time to unwind.
4) There are a lot of guys who love a good massage. If you are gifted in this way, why not use your talent? The human touch is a very powerful thing. Gentleness is important…no need to “work him over”. Give him a back rub, or run your fingers through his hair. He will tell you what he likes if you give him the chance. This is a great way for you both to unwind and prepare for the evenings events.
Activities
Many men are adventurous and energetic and love to try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few activities that will show that you love that special guy:
1) Get out of that “box” you have placed yourself in and do something that you would not normally do. Is that special guy in your life into football? Here’s an idea. Sit down on the couch next to him and ask him some questions. Here are a few to get you started. What is a quarterback? What is a first down? He will be shocked at first, but since he loves his sport, he will love providing you with the answers you are looking for. What if he’s not into football, but likes baseball or basketball or hockey? Same approach applies. You might want to do a bit of research beforehand to determine what questions to ask.
2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let’s suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why…he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.
3) Why not engage in a pillow fight? For most of us a pillow fight brings back memories of our childhood and jumping up and down on the bed. Who says we have to leave this activity behind once we lose our baby teeth and leave home? When you are lying in bed one night, perhaps watching the television, why not just grab your pillow and give him a good wallop? He might be really involved in what he is watching so you had probably better gauge his mood before you do. Who knows? You might have “hit him” at the right time and in the right place, and with his childhood memories reignited, you get yours and get yours good. Let the pillow fight begin!
Give Him Compliments
We all love to be complimented in various ways, on our clothes, or our accomplishments or our thoughtfulness. Here are a few great ways to compliment a guy:
1) Say nice complimentary things about your guy when you are out with others. Tell others how special he is, or how hard he works, or how much he cares. Word will eventually get back to that man of yours, and he will be thrilled that all the good aspects of his character have not gone unnoticed.
2) Is that special guy of yours into clothes? Does he fancy himself a great dresser? If so, he will appreciate the fact that others notice his great sense of style. Take special note of any new clothes that he is wearing, and be sure that he knows you notice.
3) What do you like? Is there something that your man does that you really appreciate? Does he do the dishes from time to time? Does he take the baby out for a walk when you are exhausted? Let him know that those little things he does are really appreciated.
4) Why not leave little romantic notes in places that he will find them. On the mirror in the bathroom perhaps? Here’s an idea, why not put a note on the steering wheel of his car? He will notice it as he leaves for work. It could say something as simple as “I Love You”. He will be smiling all the way to work.
Get Him Something
We are all accustomed to getting gifts, but this usually happens on the holidays or other special occasions. How much more special are those gifts that are given randomly. They truly are a sign of great affection, and much more special than that mechanical “time to give a gift” occasion. We have done a bit of homework for you and scoured the web looking for some truly unique and spectacular gifts that we think you will enjoy giving (and he will enjoy receiving). They are:
Our Way Cool Pick #1 – Does that special guy in your life love the outdoors? Does he likes to fish or hunt or hike or camp? I bet that you worry about him when he is away? You realize that he might get lost or hurt or “whatever”. What can you possibly do? Well here is a great little gem of an item that we came across (we didn’t even know that something like this existed). The “Satellite Messenger” is a small 8oz electronic device that will give him the ability to track his adventures and travels into the great outdoors. This device will help you keep “up-to-date” on his current location and his status as well. So, what does all this mean? It means that you will know where he is and if he is in serious trouble. How much is this piece of mind worth to you? This little device can call for help if he needs it, so it might even save his life one day. Backpacker Magazine gave it their 2008 Editor’s Choice Award, so others are raving about it as well. Considering what “peace of mind” this little device will bring, it might be just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Check out our blog for more details and ordering information.
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In Conclusion
We’re going to wrap up this article now. Has it been helpful? Have you been provided with enough examples of how to show that special man that you love him? If you would like more info, check out our blog. It goes into greater detail than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to learn of more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items we have mentioned above, check out www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For all those UNIQUE Christmas gifts you are looking for, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.
All the best in loving that special guy in your life… 
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